That Time When I Got My Mind Back (part 3) Be a patron to see the rest of this contentTo view this content, you must be a member of Lalalaletmeexplain's Patreon at $6 or more Unlock with PatreonAlready a qualifying Patreon member? Refresh to access this content. 38 thoughts on “That Time When I Got My Mind Back (part 3)” Add yours We all know a Callum, you never know it might be Thee Callum 😭😩😅👏🏽 Great read again 💛 Loading... Log in to Reply Loool! It probably bloody is thee Callum! Loading... Log in to Reply I love this! I love that you have been able to transform such a negative situation into a positive and inspire other women. It’s so refreshing to read something so raw and relatable! Callum sounds like the biggest fuckboy I’ve ever heard of so hearing about your journey of self love post-fuckboy would also be great! Can’t wait for the book! Xxx Loading... Log in to Reply Ah thank you! Writing it all down really helped me to see how far I’ve come! You’re already reading the book! Xx Loading... Log in to Reply This was a brilliant read. Like Skywalker said we all know a Callum. Thoroughly enjoyed this one. 👍🏾 Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you!! Why do we all bloody know one, what is wrong with us!!? ♀️😂💖 Loading... Log in to Reply Everything happens for a reason 😊 it was suppose to happen! & I’m glad it did not that I’m glad you was involved with a fuckboy but that you got something positive out of it and you started your blog! Before comming across your blog I couldn’t relate to anyone and felt quite isolated in my experiences! Can’t wait for the next one..keep up the good work!! Xx Loading... Log in to Reply Ah mate, that comment gave me life. I’m so glad you can relate, actually maybe I’m not because I wish neither of us had experienced these Fuckboys, but we are out the otherside stronger and better! 💖 Loading... Log in to Reply You remind me of myself! Gosh I’ve been with a Callum. I think I meet people that are different degree of him 🤔 Love your blog and glad you got your love back for writing! Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you so much! There are too many Callums!! But as long as we learn from them it was worth it 💖 Loading... Log in to Reply Every girl knows a ‘Callum’ I both love him (for being your inspiration) and hate him (for ever making you doubt yourself) Layla, a truly remarkable read! I read all 3 one after the other and want to give you a hug! Parts of these blogs had me in stitches especially the waste man adoption part. Lots of it had me close to tears though as it brings back a few memories! We’ll done lovely x Loading... Log in to Reply God this message has made me so happy, thank you so much for everything you just said 💖🙌😙 Loading... Log in to Reply This story i can totally relate to your an amazing writer !!xx Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you!! I’m sad that you can relate but happy that you liked it xx 💖 Loading... Log in to Reply I can’t wait to witness your very first publication..you’re such a talented writer and it’s like I’m right there with you in every post. I really love how honest your words are. Forever a fan! X Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you!!! Means everything to hear you say that!!! 💖😊♀️ Loading... Log in to Reply This was phenomenal, deffo one of my faves. My blood was boiling over this fuckboys actions omg, so relatable I felt like I was having a conversation with a close friend lool! Your change in attitude about the situation is beautiful and has really motivated me to strive for self love and happiness , as a 19 year old I feel like it’s so important to try and learn these things now and put them into practice for my future self!!! So thank you so so much for your words, I appreciate all your stories. Once again sending you nothing but happiness and positive vibes xxxx Loading... Log in to Reply I’m so sorry that I did not reply to this amazing message!! I wish my 19 year old self could have read these! You have so much excitement ahead of you!! I’m so glad that you enjoy them. You are the reason that I write. Big love and positive vibes to you xx Loading... Log in to Reply I can’t believe this guy!! A lesson lived; a lesson learned Loading... Log in to Reply Yup!!!! He was worth it in the end x Loading... Log in to Reply I had a very similar experience when my husband and I were separated. I was vulnerable and ended up sponsoring a waste man for a few months. He was the biggest liar I have ever dealt with. Everything from sketching instagram post with other women (supposedly an “old picture” of a recently deceased ex), suspicious gifts he recieved, dead broke but buying luxury items.His family was across the country so his whole social media was a lie, posting picture of rental cars as if it was his. I even moved the guy in, it was a nightmare getting him out of my house when I finally regained my senses. He even stole from me. Frankly I was a bit naive, I got married very early in life. Now I know that the worst time to get into a new relationship is right after a break up. Loading... Log in to Reply That sounds like an absolute nightmare!! I’m so glad that you got through it! Xx Loading... Log in to Reply This was worth the wait! I loved it, it made me feel so many emotions and as always so relatable never stop writing Callus was truly a blessing sometimes they come In the form of pain.🤗🤗🤗 Loading... Log in to Reply He really was!!! Every mistake is a lesson! Thank you xxxx Loading... Log in to Reply I meant Callum* frigin word predictor lol. Loading... Log in to Reply I knew what you meant, but callous actually works for him 🤣 Loading... Log in to Reply Oh my gosh this story had me hooked! 👀 Amazing writer! ** runs back to read all previous posts* keep up the good work! Xx Loading... Log in to Reply Ahhh!!! Thank you sooo much for this message. You’ve got loads to catch up on! Enjoy xxx Loading... Log in to Reply Best series of blog posts I’ve ever read.. highly hilarious and true reflection of the #fuckboys. Look forward to reading more 👍🏽 Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you so much!! I appreciate your feedback massively. Hope you enjoy the rest xxx Loading... Log in to Reply Great read. Once you start reading it’s impossible to stop. Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you sooo much. As a writer that’s a really amazing thing to hear 💖 Loading... Log in to Reply I cant get enough of your writing. The stories by themselves would make for a really interesting read but the self awareness you have and the way you reflect on and process everything that’s happened is amazing. I’ll be following everything you write from now on! Looking forward to that book. Good Luck! Xx Loading... Log in to Reply Thank you!!! That means so much xxx Loading... Log in to Reply crazy that we do this to ourselves because we’re scared of being alone. we hold ourselves to high standards with stuff but not with relationships and allow people’s words to be louder than their actions when it should be the other way around! 3 strikes and your out Loading... Log in to Reply Yup. The stuff we tolerate from partners is so much more than we would accept from anyone else when really it should be the other way around!! 💕 Loading... Log in to Reply Literally just got out of one of the worst situations that I have ever been in. It has completely left me broken and destroyed, and the man had no remorse – in fact he sounded borderline sociopathic! Your blog post inspired me to write the timeline of my messed up ‘situationship’ and the red flags were right there from the FIRST conversation. Stupid me! Valuable albeit painful lesson learnt. Thanks for cheering me up with this post! Loading... Log in to Reply 😘😘😘😘 Loading... 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