The Definitive Guide To Fuckboys

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  1. I’ve been reading your blog for a while now and haven’t missed a single one! Everything you speak about I’m like yaaaaas, if only this information was available a couple years ago haha!! Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re a special lady xxx

  2. An extremely definitive guide…! I’ve definitely come across quite a few hybrids on my travels. I wish there was a handy cheat sheet version I could carry with me at all times.

  3. These descriptions are really detailed and accurate af!! I’ve come across most of the personalities except for wasteman, road man and controlling fuckboii( I swear I have some type of repellent to those kind of people 😂) amazing as usual 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  4. I know you have a day job, but you really should write more often! Probably the only thing keeping me from making fresh mistakes ha ha! Thanks x

  5. I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months and I’ve never been so confused but I do see a lot of the traits from a lot of these descriptions all in one… Like yesterday this man was pouring his heart out, I made plans to see him on Sunday and he agreed and we hung out (not sexual) and it was a blast I met his friends who know me and he called me his girl infront of them, he showed concerned, jealousy, butttt at the end his ex was hitting him up but he told me he would block her and it wasn’t like that 🙄 the next day he wrote a lot to me and told me how things were different that day and he really thinks im an amazing girl lol but the following day it’s crickets. I know it’s my fault and I’m putting up with this shit but it def is hard because when it’s good it’s so good… but then he just dissapears for a bit (the weekend or days but always comes back. I have tried breaking it up with him countlessly and that’s when he tries his hardest and apologizes so I take him back. He has a way with his words. I just feel dumb but I do like him a lot. I’m thinking though… I like the attention more than anything lol cause at this point i’m not worrying that he hasn’t responded to the text I sent I’m used to it tbh. He also drinks heavily, he insisted I come with him to drop off his mom home and he treated her like shit by ignoring her… she wasn’t the nicest person to me either though. I don’t blame her though. The fact that his ex is still in the picture and he denies everything is off.

    1. Girl, I don’t even think I need to tell you anything about this situation. I think you are already seeing it for yourself. Ex still in the picture when they don’t have kids RED FLAG. Being nasty to his mum BIG RED FLAG. Drinking too much BIG RED FLAG. Ghosting for days. …..there are just so many red flags. You like him and that is cool but this is really not sounding like a healthy relationship or a relationship that’s going to suddenly become wonderful. You need to put yourself first and don’t settle for less than you deserve x

  6. I’m glad I found your site (from Instagram and led me here😊) I see so many fuck boy traits from my ex this is wish I could found sooner, I feel I wasted so much time when I meant nothing to him

  7. My friend told me to read this blog. I cannot believe how spot on you are about these ‘fuckboys’. I have dated at least 3 types. Some of the experiences you can laugh at, but not the violent ‘fuckboy’; You are right when you say ‘He’ll kill your spirit’.Ladies take heed.

  8. Very good list. Ghosting however, has only One reason, not ‘many thinkable reasons’, I think.

    The reason is that the ghoster is or feels much more popular than you are.
    He was out-of-your-league to begin with in some shallow respect.

    He only fell in love with your admiration and your thankfulness for him and your worship for him.
    After a while he got bored,
    so he ghosted you, because he has so many, many other new options.
    In ghosting you, he is also punishing you for ever thinking that a popular guy like himself, would ever fall in love with you. “Look how lonely you are without me!”
    (By popularity I mean the number of ppl who are competing to fill up his weekends with fun,
    competing to get to meet him.)
    I think there is a lot of sad rage and aggression behind ghosting.

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